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Suicide Grief Support

Suicide Grief Support Groups

Many survivors of suicide suffer not only the grief and loss of their loved one but could also be victim to the stigma our society attaches to a death by suicide. Suicide survivors should not suffer alone, nor in silence. The BC Bereavement Helpline has partnered with the BC Crisis Centre to offer Suicide Grief Support groups to help suicide survivors come together to heal in their unique loss.  Being with others who have experienced a similar loss has proven to break isolation and create long-term networks of support.

Common symptoms of grief due to the death by suicide are the questions of “why?” Why did my loved one decide to do this? Other complications include guilt, “what could I have done differently that would have prevented this death?” By bringing everyone together in a support group, healing and companionship can begin.  

Our grief support groups are led by experienced facilitators. We try very hard to ensure that at least one facilitator is a suicide survivor as they can connect and share in this similar, tragic loss. Our groups are not counselling model, but rather a format in which everyone can come together to connect  and be supported with their similar grief experiences. Facilitators will provide space for education and discussion on suicide grief. In weeks 5 and 6 of the group we focus on the life of the person who has died as our goal is to ultimately connect the survivor with the life of their loved one, as opposed to the death. 

Our 8 week suicide grief support groups provide: 

  • A safe, non-judgmental, compassionate environment with time for restorative sharing of stories and insights
  • Essential grief and mourning survival tools to help survivors in their daily lives
  • Practical support and information as well as valuable community connections
  • A respectful space for honouring the life of the person who has died

Our grief support groups are currently being offered online and meet once a week for two hours and we ask that all members are able to commit to all 8 sessions. Maximum capacity is nine members. We hold approximately four suicide grief groups per year.

The BC Bereavement Helpline acknowledges the financial assistance from the Province of British Columbia and the following partners:

                           Josh Platzer Memorial Fund - Teen Suicide Awareness and Prevention, held at Vancouver Foundation


Upcoming Online Suicide Grief Support Groups:

Spring 2022
The BC Bereavement Helpline in partnership with the Crisis Centre of BC offer 8-week online Suicide Grief Support Groups to help suicide survivors come together to heal in their unique loss. Our next group is starting:

Online Evening Session April 12 - May 31:

  • Date: Tuesdays April 12 - May 31, 2022
  • Cost: $120 (subsidies are available)
  • Where: via Zoom videoconferencing
  • Facilitators: Jessica Wolf Ortiz, RCC, Suicide Bereaved and Jude Platzer, Suicide Bereaved

 

Online Afternoon Session April 28 - June 16:

  • Date: Thursdays April 28 - June 16, 2022
  • Cost: $120 (subsidies are available)
  • Where: via Zoom videoconferencing
  • Facilitators: Debra Wolinsky M Ed, RCC, Suicide Bereaved and Pam Bilusack, Suicide Bereaved

Please contact us ASAP as consideration to the groups are on a first come, first contacted basis and we have a wait list. An intake interview and pre-registration is required.  For more information please call us  604-738-9950, toll free 1(877) 779-2223 or by email: contact@bcbh.ca.

PLEASE NOTE THAT BOTH OUR SPRING SESSIONS ARE CURRENTLY FULL. 

*If you are still interested in our next sessions, we will still take down your information and inform you when the next dates will be announced. 

  

In-Person Session in Surrey BC April 20 - June 8 hosted by Valley View Funeral Home:

  • Date: Wednesdays April 20 - June 8, 2022
  • Time: 6:30pm - 8:30pm
  • Cost: $0
  • Where: Valley View funeral Home - Arbor Lounge 14660 72nd Avenue, Surrey B.C.
  • Contact: Tricia at 604-312-0484 or email TKeith@arbormemorial.com

 


Video: One Event Does Not Define a Life. Coping with Suicide Loss. 

 

Full recording is here:: Youtube @ bcbh.live/JessicaWolf

Details
Facilitator and author, Jessica Wolf Ortiz speaks to the specific challenges of a suicide loss and the experiences of those who are left behind. She helps us understand why this is considered a traumatic loss, some of the common feelings and thoughts of suicide survivors (those left behind) and how this one event does not define a life. 

Facilitator Biography
Jessica Wolf Ortiz is a registered clinical counsellor with the BC Clinical Counselling Association and has a Masters degree in Family Therapy. Suicide bereaved herself, Jessica has devoted part of her 20-year clinical work to grief therapy and, uniquely, suicide bereavement. She is a co-facilitator of the BCBH/BC Crisis Centre online suicide grief support groups.

Jessica is a TED Talk speaker, and the author of the book “Overcoming Suicide Bereavement: The Experience of Those that Stay” about the aftermath of suicide and the unique aspects of suicide bereavement. This book, currently available in Spanish, is in the process of being translated into English.


Additional Supports

Please call the Helpline and we can assist in finding you 1-1 counseling supports for your suicide grief. 

Please see our Coping With Grief / Suicide Loss Section on our website for additional resources. 


Surviving the Loss

 

 


Support Group Testimonials

"It was nice to talk with others going through similar experiences who could relate to what I’m going through."

"Thank you for providing this greatly needed service."

"I felt what I learned and the connections I made were so beneficial and would be helpful to others."

"I have realized how helpful and supportive it is to communicate with others who are experiencing a similar situation."

"It was beyond helpful [the support group], from start to finish. I could have never imagined finding such an amazing safe and supportive group."

"Both facilitators had experienced loss from suicide before, which was amazingly helpful. They let us talk freely and openly, without judgement, and they know what we’re going through. (*BCBH support groups strive to have at least one facilitator who has experienced similar losses. We are not always able to find two.)"

"It’s been something I look forward to and crave and has been an amazing gift to share in a space where people understand! Thank you."


Chilliwack Hospice Society - Traumatic Loss Support Group

A Traumatic Loss Grief Support Group is a safe environment where friends and family members can experience understanding, support, compassion and hope. The group is for individuals and families who have had a loved one die suddenly in ways including, but not limited to, suicide, homicide, accident, substance use, or physical illness. Our Traumatic Loss Grief Support Group meets once per week for eight sessions and is offered by Chilliwack Hospice Society throughout the year as necessary. The next group is in Feb 2022 and is open to those in and outside of Chilliwack. The group will be either online or in person, TBD. 

Individuals interested in registering for this group may call Lucy at (604) 795-4660.

Email: info@chilliwackhospice.org

Web: www.chilliwackhospice.org